The week's hardly over but already two different controversies related to the N-word have surfaced. Dutch magazine Jackie dropped jaws when it published a piece that referred to Barbadian pop star Rihanna as the " ultimate n----r b---h." Editor Eva Hoeke, who just announced her resignation over the controversy, said that this hateful description of Rihanna was supposed to be a joke. I'm curious as to how the coupling of two terms known for disparaging blacks and women is humorous.
Hoeke admitted on the magazine's Facebook page that the joke was a bad one, but that's as far as she went. She took little responsibility for what happened, saying that the piece was published without her reading it over beforehand (even though it appeared it in a headline) and that there was "no racist motive behind the choice of words." She chalks the controversy up to a misguided use of slang.
But would this particular writer have referred to, say, Katy Perry or Lady Gaga in the same way? After all, the writer used the term "n----r b---ch" to describe Rihanna's risqué wardrobe and behavior, and Perry, Gaga and just about every female pop star these days follows suit. How about the fact that the writer also described Rihanna's backside as "ghetto." I question if Britney Spears' backside would be described similarly. The terminology used to describe Rihanna was chosen because she's black. That makes it racist. But Hoeke's determined to let the writer off the hook for this, saying of the N-word:
'It was naïve to think that this was an acceptable form of slang. You hear it all the time on TV and radio, then your idea of what is normal apparently shifts - but it was especially misguided: there was no malice behind it."
It's high time to retire that excuse for using the N-word. It doesn't matter that the N-word is used in popular culture or that some black people use it. Many black people oppose it, such as writer Maya Angelou, who reportedly became upset recently when she learned that Chicago rapper Common used the term in a song featuring her called "The Dreamer."
"I had no idea that Common was using the piece we had done together on [a track] in which he also used the N-word numerous times," Angelou told the New York Post. "I'm surprised and disappointed. I don't know why he chose to do that."
It doesn't matter that the N-word can be heard in a gazillion rap songs or that some black people use it. The problem is that the word is still a slur and for some blacks it remains deeply offensive, no matter if a fellow black person says it or if a person from another racial group does.


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Rihanna’s liberal usage of the n-word and b-word has come back to haunt her. The danger in referring to yourself as such is that the rest of the world is listening and liable to take you at your word. If you are among those of us who understands that to get respect you must first respect yourself, the following link will be of immense interest to you:
http://www.change.org/petitions/black-african-americans-to-denounce-and-stop-referring-to-one-another-as-the-n-word-ngahs?share_id=KieLfUvvjt&pe=d2e
When I was 22 yrs old… back in 1983… my brother used the “N” word. He was lucky I was driving cause if I hadn’t been he would have had my fist in his face. Instead, I read him the riot act. Our family was not like that, we were never taught that BS and if he ever said it again he would get my fist in his face. (I have a bit of the fighting irish in me… a day prior we had been fag bashed… and I recall winning… I think they were shocked that I had the balls to punch them in the face.) He tried to explain… I told him to shut up… there is no “explanation”.
Last summer… a friend used the term “kike”. I stopped the conversation, read her the riot act and nearly ended the friendship.
A while ago, I was listening to a pod cast of a minister, he described gays as being as natural as “pigs eating their young”. It felt like someone had punched me in the stomach… and it sickens me that my ex is a member of that church… it also sickens me that he said it in front of at least a few hundred people and not one objected.
I have been on the planet for 50 years… there is no excuse at all for any kind hate language. All hate words are exactly that… filled with hate. People who say that “words will never hurt me” are lying. Words hurt… we need all need to learn to be kinder to each other.
Robert
I fully agree. Death to the N-words! It’s hypocritical to get all bent out of shape for someone else using the N-word when YOU use it, too.
Robert – Great, well written post. You sounds like someone with a lot of integrity.
Most Dutch women “wish” they had the ghetto butts amongst other things. The Dutch have always carried the dubious distinction of being the most racist of all people; just ask the South Africans. Many of their women could never become models as they are not camera friendly.